everything happens for a reason

Things don't always go as planned. That's life. For me, being open to change has really made things easier. 

Don't get me wrong, I like to make plans that way I have an idea of what to expect, like is the event inside or outdoors, so I know how to dress. It's not essential but it helps so I don't bring my whole wardrobe everywhere I go. I make loose plans. No, that doesn't mean if "something better" comes along I'll ditch you. I just means that I'm open to change so if it happens it is a smooth transition. 

I'm writing this because my schedule got diverted today and it's in the forefront of my mind. I've had to rearrange or cancel events for the coming weeks. I'm not angry about any of it though I am a tad disappointed. 

This may not be a popular statement but I believe that everything happens for a reason. And if I truly believe that then going with the flow is so important. I understand this isn't for everyone but it's what works for me.